Can you answer a few more questions 3 degrees?
1) How often do you intend to use this boat? Every weekend, or only on holidays with odd summer weekend.
2) What is the main intended use for the boat? You and the wife maybe happiest fishing and cruising the Gulf, but those teens maybe into skiing or wake boarding.
I should also ask if there is an interest in game fishing or diving.
3) Have a you a suitable tow vehicle? Should not be a big problem with the hulls identified, but if you jump up to 6.5metre plus then it is a challenge. Also are you beach or ramp launching - has an impact on the tow vehicle.
I have always strongly supported Haines Hunters as they are well built and have excellent sea keeping qualities. But I know very satisfied Buccaneer and FiGlass owners.
Modern two strokes are great engines, if they save big bucks on purchase use one but you may use some more gas. The teens will love them for skiing and wakeboarding.
I am not in favour of under utilised 4 strokes, believing they are great for the high hours per year user (game fishers and those out on the water every spare day).
You have probably made a lot of the yards towards a decision if down to these three makes. Buy then give the boat a family use of summer testing.
Enjoy the experience - that is the key thing about owning your own boat.